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Courtesy to: Casey Horner (unsplash.com/@mischievous_penguins)
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## Excerpt from the 404 Questionnaire:
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What do you want?
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Why do you do what you do each day?
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What do you think you’re here for?
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What are you doing with this day, today?
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What are you searching for?
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What are you looking at?
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Have you learned something new today? This week?
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What filters would you apply to your mood right now if it was an analogue film frame?
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Is this what you really want to do or it is your way of delaying your realisation?
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What would your day look like if you were a pirate?
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If you could be any animal for a day, which one would you choose and why?
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If you could be any animal for a day, how would you experience the world differently?
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Do you speak horse language? (wild question)
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If you were Kim, who would that person be? (wild question)
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What does your body need today?
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What does your mind need today?
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What does your soul need today?
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If your life was a treasure hunt, what would you be searching for?
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What is your personality?
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What would a person that loves you tell you if know you’re suffering?
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If you were in search of a new identity, what clues would you need to find it?
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If you could see the world through the eyes of any animal, which one would you choose and why?
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If you were a pirate, what kind of treasure would you be searching for?
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If you were a pirate, what obstacles would you face on your journey?
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If you owned a boat, to which destination you would go first and why?
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Think of your favourite food. How does it make you feel when looking at it? And when eating it?
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What is one "yes" that you've been ignoring lately?
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What advice would you give to someone else who is experiencing loss?
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What emotions have you been experiencing lately?
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How has my relationship with others changed in the last 5 years?
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How have my thoughts and beliefs about life and death changed in the last 5 years?
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What positive memories can you hold on to about a person you’ve lost?
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What activities or hobbies bring me comfort in times of grief?
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How can you take care of yourself during difficult times?
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What were the 6 things you wanted to be when you were a kid?
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What is time? How can you describe it?
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What is beauty? How can you describe it?
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What is happiness? How can you describe it?
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What is love? How can you describe it?
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What is faith? How can you describe it?
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What is hope? How can you describe it?
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What is fear? How can you describe it?
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What is play? How can you describe it?
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What is a ritual? How can you describe it?
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What do you want?
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Why do you do what you do each day?
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What do you think you’re here for?
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What are you doing with this day, today?
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What are you searching for?
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What are you looking at?
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Have you learned something new today? This week?
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What filters would you apply to your mood right now if it was an analogue film frame?
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Is this what you really want to do or it is your way of delaying your realisation?
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What would your day look like if you were a pirate?
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If you could be any animal for a day, which one would you choose and why?
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If you could be any animal for a day, how would you experience the world differently?
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Do you speak horse language? (wild question)
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If you were Kim, who would that person be? (wild question)
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What does your body need today?
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What does your mind need today?
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What does your soul need today?
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If your life was a treasure hunt, what would you be searching for?
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How would you describe your personality?
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What would a person that loves you tell you if know you’re suffering?
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If you were in search of a new identity, what clues would you need to find it?
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If you could see the world through the eyes of any animal, which one would you choose and why?
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If you were a pirate, what kind of treasure would you be searching for?
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If you were a pirate, what obstacles would you face on your journey?
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If you owned a boat, to which destination you would go first and why?
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Think of your favourite food. How does it make you feel when looking at it? And when eating it?
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What is one "yes" that you've been ignoring lately?
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What advice would you give to someone else who is experiencing loss?
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What emotions have you been experiencing lately?
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How has my relationship with others changed in the last 5 years?
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How have my thoughts and beliefs about life and death changed in the last 5 years?
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What positive memories can you hold on to about a person you’ve lost?
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What activities or hobbies bring me comfort in times of grief?
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How can you take care of yourself during difficult times?
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What were the 6 things you wanted to be when you were a kid?
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What is time? How can you describe it?
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What is beauty? How can you describe it?
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What is happiness? How can you describe it?
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What is love? How can you describe it?
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What is faith? How can you describe it?
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What is hope? How can you describe it?
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What is fear? How can you describe it?
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What is play? How can you describe it?
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What is a ritual? How can you describe it?
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What is a game? How can you describe it?
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How does your body feel when you are in pain?
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How does your body feel when you are in love?
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How does your body feel when you are anxious?
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Do you talk negatively to yourself?
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Are you mean to yourself? If yes, why? If not, also why?
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Think of all your past partners. What are some qualities and traits they had in common?
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Is sex usually the best aspect of a relationship or the worst for you?
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What do your friends say about your partners?
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Did you ever have any kind of unwanted touch from a friend, a partner or a family member?
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Did you ever have any kind of unwanted touch from a stranger?
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What does sex mean for you?
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How does sex make you feel?
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What words, metaphors or images do you associate with sex?
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What is your attitude towards your body?
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Do you have any tendencies for self-sabotage, procrastination or self-doubt?
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Have you tried to get advice, help or guidance from professionals?
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Do you sometimes feel like a victim?
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How much sex is normal for you?
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Were your first sexual experiences positive or negative?
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How did you learn about sexuality?
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What are your values around sexuality?
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What losses have you experienced in your life, and how have you coped with them in the past?
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What self-care practices can you incorporate into your daily routine to help you cope with grief?
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What self-care practices can you incorporate into your daily routine to help you cope with anxiety?
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What new perspectives have you gained about life as a result of loss in the past?
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What triggers your feelings of grief, and how can you manage them when they arise?
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How has your sense of identity been affected by a loss?
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How can you stay connected to someone you lost even though they are no longer physically present?
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What role does forgiveness play in your healing process after experiencing loss?
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What can you do to take care of your physical health during times of grieving?
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How can you create a support network that will help you through difficult times?
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What have your friends taught you about friendship?
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What have your friends taught you about life?
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What have your friends taught you about love?
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What have your parents taught you about friendship?
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What ideas have changed your life?
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What subconscious behaviours are keeping you from the life you want?
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In which direction has your life expanded in the last five years?
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Are you afraid of being who you truly are?
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Have you adapted to a certain way of thinking?
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Do you suppress your feelings?
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Have your thoughts been chosen for you?
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Who do you trust? Why?
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Have you forced yourself to forget something painful?
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How does your body feel when you are in pain?
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How does your body feel when you are in love?
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How does your body feel when you are anxious?
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Do you talk negatively to yourself?
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Are you mean to yourself? If yes, why? If not, also why?
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Think of all your past partners. What are some qualities and traits they had in common?
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Is sex usually the best aspect of a relationship or the worst for you?
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What do your friends say about your partners?
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Did you ever have any kind of unwanted touch from a friend, a partner or a family member?
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Did you ever have any kind of unwanted touch from a stranger?
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What does sex mean for you?
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How does sex make you feel?
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What words, metaphors or images do you associate with sex?
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What is your attitude towards your body?
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Do you have any tendencies for self-sabotage, procrastination or self-doubt?
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Have you tried to get advice, help or guidance from professionals?
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Do you sometimes feel like a victim?
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How much sex is normal for you?
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Were your first sexual experiences positive or negative?
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How did you learn about sexuality?
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What are your values around sexuality?
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What losses have you experienced in your life, and how have you coped with them in the past?
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What self-care practices can you incorporate into your daily routine to help you cope with grief?
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What self-care practices can you incorporate into your daily routine to help you cope with anxiety?
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What new perspectives have you gained about life as a result of loss in the past?
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What triggers your feelings of grief, and how can you manage them when they arise?
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How has your sense of identity been affected by a loss?
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How can you stay connected to someone you lost even though they are no longer physically present?
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What role does forgiveness play in your healing process after experiencing loss?
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What can you do to take care of your physical health during times of grieving?
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How can you create a support network that will help you through difficult times?
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What have your friends taught you about friendship?
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What have your friends taught you about life?
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What have your friends taught you about love?
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What have your parents taught you about friendship?
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What ideas have changed your life?
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What subconscious behaviours are keeping you from the life you want?
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In which direction has your life expanded in the last five years?
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Are you afraid of being who you truly are?
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Have you adapted to a certain way of thinking?
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Do you suppress your feelings?
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Have your thoughts been chosen for you?
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Who do you trust? Why?
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Have you forced yourself to forget something painful?
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What is art for?
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