From 51c6604849d41d2ab3c3fc319b2b1a404e015f33 Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001 From: ada Date: Thu, 23 Mar 2023 09:52:25 +0100 Subject: [PATCH] Update 'web/gossip-on-gossip/some-gossip-on-gossip.md' --- web/gossip-on-gossip/some-gossip-on-gossip.md | 8 ++++---- 1 file changed, 4 insertions(+), 4 deletions(-) diff --git a/web/gossip-on-gossip/some-gossip-on-gossip.md b/web/gossip-on-gossip/some-gossip-on-gossip.md index 66180aa..355eb32 100644 --- a/web/gossip-on-gossip/some-gossip-on-gossip.md +++ b/web/gossip-on-gossip/some-gossip-on-gossip.md @@ -6,13 +6,13 @@ author: Irmak :::::{#gossip .has-images} -![Tittle Tattle; or The Feveral Branches of Gofsipping, British Museum Collection](fortnite-0.jpg) +![Tittle Tattle; or The Feveral Branches of Gofsipping, British Museum Collection](image1.jpeg) # Some Gossip on gossip and what coffee has to do with it. Godsipp (God and sib (akin), godmother or godfather) was in the 12th century a word used for both men and women in fables and amongst society. The church recognized the word as well. It was used to name companions present at childbirth, just like the midwife. Sometimes, it was used to mention close friends. It represented the strong ties between women, which surpassed their relationship with their husbands. Was it witchery that strong and independent women preferred their gossip over their husbands? Well, that is something that hasn't changed since the middle ages.  -![Tittle Tattle; or The Feveral Branches of Gofsipping, British Museum Collection](fortnite-0.jpg) +![Tittle Tattle; or The Feveral Branches of Gofsipping, British Museum Collection](image2.jpeg) "Godsipp" began its journey with nothing but good and emotionally strong connotations. Women bloomed and blossomed among each other and were autonomous in their existence. Men were never a part of this party women were throwing. By the 16th century, as things began to change, the traditional meaning lingered on. In 1602, the word was still used to signify female friendships. This can be seen in Samuel Rowlands's *Tis Merrie When Gossips Meete*, a satirical piece describing three London women spending hours in a tavern talking about men and marriages. It implied that 'women could create their social networks and their own social space' and stand up to male authority(Federici, 2019). Solidarity and friendship amongst women were demeaned and female-exclusive parties were banned; women who met in public were identified as "witches" and women's first duty was now to be obedient and quiet. The talk about husbands at taverns was too hurtful for the sensitive male ego that public, church and the law, forbid women to engage in "idle talk". Centuries past, the sensitive male ego remains but now is attacking to mutilate women from many resources including cyberbullying, mobbing at the workspace and many more that tie to act violently in any sort.  @@ -26,13 +26,13 @@ It was in this context that 'gossip' turned from a word of friendship and affect **So what does coffee have to do with it?** -![kahvegibikahve.com/blog](fortnite-0.jpg) +![kahvegibikahve.com/blog](image3.jpeg) Fortune telling over coffee stretches back to the 16th century when the beans made it to the Middle East and Ottoman Empire. The reality is that in the Ottoman Empire, concubines in Harem were banned from talking and "gossiping". They had a great influence (although not officially recognized by men themselves) on sultans and therefore affected the political decisions and affairs of the Empire. Out of solidarity, women began to perform fortune-telling over the remains of coffee inside and outside coffee cups. This way they could talk about their fears and inner worlds freely. I can't help but see the similarity with the oppression women went through of gossip. The striking difference is how fortune telling over coffee didn't change its connotation in time. Today, it is also an act of solidarity or a chance to "gossip", one might say.  "In this painting, an Ottoman woman drinking coffee and her maid serving her is depicted. It is known that the painting is from the first half of the 18th century. The work of Jean-Baptiste Vanmour, 'Turkish Girl Drinking Coffee on the Sedir' was based on this Ottoman woman, who is the main figure of the painting. The maid, who is positioned on the right side of the painting and serves on her knees, is noticed as the other interesting side of the painting. The large and ostentatious headdress on the head of the Ottoman woman stands out as another element that focuses attention on the work. It is also known that the headdress in question was inspired by the picture of a serpentine woman in the book of the Dutch painter Cornelis de Bruyn, who visited Turkey in the 17th century." -![kahvegibikahve.com/blog](fortnite-0.jpg) +![kahvegibikahve.com/blog](image4.jpeg) Whether with gossip or chatting over coffee, women have always found a way to express themselves regardless of oppression. These rituals were performed by women as an act of sisterhood and out of respect for both their inner worlds and each other. It is undeniable that gossip still brings people together and that centuries of oppression failed to change that. Through the centuries, as the word began to be weaponized against women and became a tool to turn against each other, I can't help but wonder how unfair pop culture was to women. In any magazine or TV series, anyone can spot a gossip scene with negative consequences or aim. A woman is sassy, "bitchy" or evil when she gossips, but why do we still let our acts be defined by the misogynistic portrayal of men? Today, the word gossip or fortune telling may be used as something you wouldn't want to be a part of because it could harm someone. Let's oppose the negative connotation assigned to this word by men and use it as a joyful gathering. Reclaiming gossip and fortune telling as an intimate support system, a strong web, is the least we can do to honour the women who met at taverns and shared a part of their souls with each other.