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What do I want?
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Why do you do what you do each day?
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What do you think you’re here for?
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What are you doing with this day, today?
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What are you searching for?
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What are you looking at?
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Have you learned something new today? This week?
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What filters would you apply?
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Is this what you really want to do or it is your way of delaying your realisation?
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What if you were a pirate?
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If you could be any animal for a day, which one would you choose and why?
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If you could be any animal for a day, how would you experience the world differently?
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Do you speak horse language? (wild question)
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If you were Kim, who would that person be? (wild question)
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What does your body need today?
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What does your mind need today?
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What does your soul need today?
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If your life was a treasure hunt, what would you be searching for?
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What is your personality?
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What would a person that loves you tell you if know you’re suffering?
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If you were in search of a new identity, what clues would you need to find it?
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If you could see the world through the eyes of any animal, which one would you choose and why?
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If you were a pirate, what kind of treasure would you be searching for?
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If you were a pirate, what obstacles would you face on your journey?
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If you owned a boat, to which destination you would go first and why?
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Think of your favourite food. How does it make you feel when looking at it? And when eating it?
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What is one "yes" that you've been ignoring lately?
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What advice would I give to someone else who is experiencing loss?
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What emotions have I been experiencing lately?
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How has my relationship with others changed in the last 5 years?
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How have my thoughts and beliefs about life and death changed in the last 5 years?
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What positive memories can I hold on to about a person I’ve lost?
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What activities or hobbies bring me comfort in times of grief?
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How can I take care of myself during this difficult time?
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What were the 6 things you wanted to be when you were a kid?
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What is time? How can you describe it?
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What is beauty? How can you describe it?
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What is happiness? How can you describe it?
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What is love? How can you describe it?
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What is faith? How can you describe it?
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What is hope? How can you describe it?
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What is fear? How can you describe it?
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What is play? How can you describe it?
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What is a ritual? How can you describe it?
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What is a game? How can you describe it?
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How does your body feel when you are in pain?
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How does your body feel when you are in love?
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How does your body feel when you are anxious?
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Do you talk negatively to yourself?
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Are you mean to yourself? If yes, why? If not, also why?
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Think of all your past partners. What are some qualities and traits they had in common?
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Is sex usually the best aspect of a relationship or the worst for you?
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What do your friends say about your partners?
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Did you ever have any kind of unwanted touch from a friend, a partner or a family member?
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Did you ever have any kind of unwanted touch from a stranger?
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What does sex mean for you?
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How does sex make you feel?
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What words, metaphors or images do you associate with sex?
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What is your attitude towards your body?
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Do you have any tendencies for self-sabotage, procrastination or self-doubt?
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Have you tried to get advice, help or guidance from professionals?
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Do you sometimes feel like a victim?
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How much sex is normal for you?
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Were your first sexual experiences positive or negative?
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How did you learn about sexuality?
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What are your own personal values around sexuality?
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What losses have you experienced in your life, and how have you coped with them in the past?
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What self-care practices can you incorporate into your daily routine to help you cope with grief?
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What self-care practices can you incorporate into your daily routine to help you cope with anxiety?
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What new perspectives have you gained about life as a result of loss in the past?
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What triggers your feelings of grief, and how can you manage them when they arise?
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How has your sense of identity been affected by a loss?
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How can you stay connected to someone you lost even though they are no longer physically present?
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What role does forgiveness play in your healing process after experiencing loss?
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What can you do to take care of your physical health during times of grieving?
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How can you create a support network that will help you through difficult times?
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What have your friends taught you about friendship?
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What have your friends taught you about life?
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What have your friends taught you about love?
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What have your parents taught you about friendship?
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What ideas have changed your life?
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What subconscious behaviours are keeping you from the life you want?
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In which direction has your life expanded in the last five years?
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Are you afraid of being who you truly are?
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Have you adapted to a certain way of thinking?
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Do you suppress your feelings?
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Have your thoughts been chosen for you?
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Who do you trust? Why?
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Have you forced yourself to forget something painful?
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What is art for?
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What are friends for?
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What sort of things have made you envious recently?
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What is making you passionate about your life and the world?
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What bothers you (in the world)?
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How would you like to shape this world?
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What is your favourite place in the world? Why?
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How do you feel when you are there?
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What do you love to do?
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What main activities keep you busy?
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When (if) do you experience flow?
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Which things give you energy?
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Which things inhibit you? What is holding you back?
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Which 3 thoughts made you smile today?
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Which 5 things are you most grateful for?
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How do people see you differently than you see yourself?
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What are the 3 characteristics you hope others see in you?
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Who has qualities you aspire to develop? Who inspires you?
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Whats the one thing you can’t live without? Why?
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What are your core values?
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Are you being true to your values?
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Who or what has helped you on your path?
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Who or what can help you on your path ahead?
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Which things do you think you need luck for?
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How could you achieve them without luck?
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What are 3 things that are always on your to-do list?
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What nice thing did you do for someone else in the past 24 hours?
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Who do you want/need in your peer group?
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What is your most precious possession? Why?
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Who in your life do you trust the most?
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What is your addiction?
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What is your biggest fuck-up?
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What makes you sad?
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What is the most adventurous thing you have ever done?
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What are the things you want to be? Why?
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Whats stopping you from doing the things you should be doing?
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Which things do you have room for in your life?
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What things do you need to make room for in your life?
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What has been important to you so far in life?
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What is your secret magic power?
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What character are you playing in this world?
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What job would you be excited to share with others?
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What did you want to be when you were younger? How does what you do now relate to this?
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What did you love to do as a kid?
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Which 3 people have had a major influence on you?
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Which 2 events have had a major influence on you?
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What is your big idea? Why this big idea?
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What is your secret big dream?
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What makes you happy?
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What gives you courage?
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What gives you strength?
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What gives you joy?
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What are the 3 thoughts that you have a lot?
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What character trait do you have that pushes people away?
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In what areas of your life are you settling?
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Which 3 things are you proud of?
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Which 2 compliments do you often get?
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Where do you go to recharge your batteries?
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When are you at your most productive?
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What’s your favourite book/movie/game? Why?
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Who motivates you most in life?
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What is inspiration to you?
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When do you feel inspired?
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How do you feel when you are inspired?
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In which areas of your life would you like to experience more inspiration, and why?
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What things do you think it is too late for?
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What do you want to achieve?
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What were three situations where you persevered even when the odds were against you?
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What would you like to experience in your life?
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What is most important to you at this moment?
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What would you like to learn in life?
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What am I not saying “no” to in my life's important areas?
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With whom and in what situations do I find it most difficult to say no?
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Do you beat yourselves up after saying “no” to someone or something?
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What do I miss out on due to my inability to assert myself?
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What bodily symptoms have I been overlooking?
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What is the hidden story behind my inability to say no?
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What are the limiting core beliefs you constructed about yourself?
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What must I believe about myself to deny my own needs this way?
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Are you responsible for other people's feelings and experiences?
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Where did I learn these stories about myself?
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Where have I ignored the yes that wanted to be said?
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What desire to play or explore we have ignored or what joys we have denied ourselves?
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What scares you?
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One question you are afraid to ask?
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Have you ever been scared of showing someone how much they mean to you?
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Do you feel hard to love?
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Did you really think it would be different this time?
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Who is the first person you want to share good news with?
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Who is the first person you want to share bad news with?
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Who are you avoiding?
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What’s a compliment you still remember?
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Who is your comfort person?
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What title would you give to this chapter of your life?
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Who do you wish you were with right now?
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What is a dream you’ve let go of?
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What title would you give to this chapter of your sex life?
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How would you describe the feeling of being in love in one word?
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You know you’re in love when____?
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What would your younger self not believe about your life today?
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