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What do you want?
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Why do you do what you do each day?
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What do you think you are here for?
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What are you doing with this day, today?
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What are you searching for?
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What are you looking at?
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Have you learned something new today? This week?
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What filters would you apply to your mood right now if it was an analogue film?
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Is this what you really want to do, or it is your way of delaying your realisation?
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If you could be any animal for a day, which one would you choose and why?
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If you could be any animal for a day, how would you experience the world differently?
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Do you speak horse language? (wild question)
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If you were Kim, who would that person be? (wild question)
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What does your body need today?
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What does your mind need today?
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What does your soul need today?
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If your life was a treasure hunt what would you be searching for?
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How would you describe your personality?
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What would a person that loves you tell you if know you are suffering?
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If you were in search of a new identity, what clues would you need to find it?
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If you were a pirate, what kind of treasure would you be searching for?
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If you were a pirate, what obstacles would you face on your journey?
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If you owned a boat, to which destination you would go first and why?
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Think of your favourite food. How does it make you feel when looking at it? And when eating it?
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What is one "yes" that you have been ignoring lately?
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What advice would you give to someone else who is experiencing loss?
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What emotions have you been experiencing lately?
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How has your relationship with others changed in the last five years?
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How have your thoughts and beliefs about life and death changed in the last five years?
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What positive memories can you hold on to about a person you have lost?
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What activities or hobbies bring you comfort in times of grief?
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How can you take care of yourself during hard times?
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What were the six things you wanted to be when you were a kid?
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What is time? How can you describe it?
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What is beauty? How can you describe it?
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What is happiness? How can you describe it?
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What is love? How can you describe it?
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What is faith? How can you describe it?
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What is hope? How can you describe it?
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What is fear? How can you describe it?
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What is play? How can you describe it?
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What is a ritual? How can you describe it?
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What is a game? How can you describe it?
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How does your body feel when you are in pain?
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How does your body feel when you are in love?
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How does your body feel when you are anxious?
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How does your body feel when you are excited?
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Do you talk negatively to yourself? Explain.
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Are you mean to yourself? If yes, why? If not, also why?
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Think of all your past partners. What are some qualities and traits they had in common?
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Is sex usually the best aspect of a relationship or the worst for you?
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What do your friends say about your partners?
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Did you ever have any kind of unwanted touch from a friend, a partner or a family member?
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Did you ever have any kind of unwanted touch from a stranger?
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What does sex mean for you?
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How does sex make you feel?
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How does thinking about sex make you feel?
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What words, metaphors or images do you associate with sex?
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What is your attitude towards your body?
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Do you have any tendencies for self-sabotage, procrastination or self-doubt?
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Do you feel like a victim sometime?
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Do you believe you have control over the way events unfold in your life?
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How much sex is normal for you?
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Were your first sexual experiences positive or negative?
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How did you learn about sexuality?
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What are your values around sexuality?
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What losses have you experienced in your life, and how have you coped with them in the past?
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What self-care practices have you incorporated into your daily routine to help you cope with grief?
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What self-care practices have you incorporated into your daily routine to help you cope with anxiety?
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What new perspectives have you gained about life as a result of loss in the past?
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What triggers your feelings of grief, and how can you manage them when they arise?
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How has your sense of identity been affected by a loss?
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How can you stay connected to someone you lost even though they are no longer physically present?
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What role does forgiveness play in your healing process after experiencing loss?
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What can you do to take care of your physical health during times of grieving?
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What can you do to take care of your mental health during times of grieving?
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How can you create a support network that will help you through difficult times?
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What have your friends taught you about friendship?
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What have your friends taught you about life?
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What have your friends taught you about love?
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What ideas have changed your life?
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What subconscious behaviours are keeping you from the life you want?
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In which direction has your life expanded in the last five years?
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Are you afraid of being who you truly are?
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Are you afraid of being seen the way you truly are?
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Have you adapted to a certain way of thinking?
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Do you suppress your feelings?
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Do you experience anger frequently?
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Do you feel emotionally triggered by people's words or actions towards you?
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What are your thoughts on anger?
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What are your thoughts on fear?
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What are your thoughts on hate?
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Have your thoughts been chosen for you?
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Who do you trust? Why?
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Who do you don't trust? Why?
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Have you forced yourself to forget something painful?
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What is art for?
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What are friends for?
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What is money for?
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What is labour for?
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Are you lonely?
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What are you most afraid of losing?
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Do you feel lonely around other people? Why?
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Do you feel lonely when you are alone? Why?
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What sort of things has made you envious recently?
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What sort of things has made you smile recently?
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What sort of things has made you laugh recently?
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Do you enjoy laughing?
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Who made you laugh recently?
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What is making you passionate about your life?
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What bothers you (in the world)?
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How would you like to shape this world?
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What is your favourite place and why?
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How do you feel when you are in a place you love?
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What do you love to do?
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What main activities keep you busy daily?
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When (if) do you experience flow?
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Which things give you energy?
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Which things inhibit you?
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What is holding you back?
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Which 3 thoughts made you smile today?
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Which 5 things are you most grateful for today?
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How do people see you differently than you see yourself?
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What are the 3 characteristics you hope others see in you?
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Who has qualities you aspire to develop?
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Who inspires you?
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What are the 3 things you can’t live without? Why?
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What are your core values?
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Are you being true to your values?
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Who or what has helped you on your path?
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Who or what can help you on your path ahead?
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Which things do you think you need luck for?
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What are 3 things that are always on your to-do list?
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What nice thing did you do for someone else in the past 24 hours?
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Who do you want/need in your peer group?
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What is your most precious possession? Why?
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Who in your life do you trust the most?
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What (if) is your addiction?
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What is your biggest fuck-up?
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What makes you sad?
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What makes you cry?
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What is the most adventurous thing you have ever done?
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What are the things you want to be? Why?
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What is stopping you from doing the things you should be doing?
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Which things do you have room for in your life?
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What things do you need to make room for in your life?
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What has been important to you so far in life?
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What is your secret magic power?
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What character are you playing in this world?
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What part of yourself would you be excited to share with others?
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What did you want to be when you were younger? How does what you do now relate to this?
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What did you love to do as a kid?
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Which 3 people have had a major influence on you?
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Which 2 events have had a major influence on you?
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What is your secret big dream?
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What makes you happy?
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What gives you courage?
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What gives you strength?
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What gives you joy?
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What are the 3 thoughts that you have a lot?
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What character trait do you have that pushes people away?
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In what areas of your life are you settling?
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Which 3 things are you proud of?
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Which 3 compliments do you often get?
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What type of criticism do you often get?
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Where do you go to recharge your batteries?
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When are you at your most creative?
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What is your favourite book and why?
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What is your favourite movie and why?
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What is your favourite game and why?
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Who motivates you most in life?
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What is an inspiration to you?
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When do you feel inspired?
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How do you feel when you are inspired?
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In which areas of your life would you like to experience more inspiration, and why?
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What things do you think it is too late for?
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What do you want to achieve?
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Do you feel afraid of being judged?
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Are you afraid of being vulnerable?
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What has surprised you when (if) you have met people from other countries?
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What is one thing you will never fear?
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What is one thing that scares you the most about people?
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Do you enjoy spending time in nature? Why?
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Do you enjoy spending time in open water? Why?
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Do you enjoy spending time with people? Why?
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What were three situations where you persevered even when the odds were against you?
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What would you like to experience in your life?
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What is most important to you at this moment?
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What would you like to learn in life?
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What are you not saying “no” to in your life's important areas?
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With whom and in what situations do you find it most difficult to say no?
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Do you beat yourselves up after saying “no” to someone or something?
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What do you miss out on due to the inability to assert yourself?
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What bodily symptoms have you been overlooking?
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What is the hidden story behind your inability to say no if that's what you think?
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What are the limiting core beliefs you constructed about yourself?
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In what situations do you deny your own needs?
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Are you responsible for other people's feelings and experiences?
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Do you feel responsible for other people's feelings and experiences?
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Where have you ignored the "yes" that wanted to be said?
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What desire to play or explore you have ignored?
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What joys you have denied yourself?
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What scares you?
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One question you are afraid to ask?
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Have you ever been scared of showing someone how much they mean to you?
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Do you feel hard to love?
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Do you think things can be different next time?
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Who is the first person you want to share good news with?
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Who is the first person you want to share bad news with?
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Who are you avoiding?
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What are you avoiding?
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What is one compliment you still remember?
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Who is your comfort person?
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What title would you give to this chapter of your life?
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What title would you give to this chapter of your sex life?
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Who do you wish you were with right now?
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What is a dream you have let go of? Why?
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How would you describe the feeling of being in love in one word?
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You know you are in love when____?
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What would your younger self not believe about your life today?
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Do you think culture is important?
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In your opinion, what are things that define a culture?
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If you could change one thing about your culture, what would it be?
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Would you ever consider dating someone from another culture?
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What is considered rude in your culture?
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What does it mean to be polite in your culture?
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If aliens visited your country, what might surprise them?
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What does "culture shock" mean to you?
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Have you ever experienced culture shock?
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Are you direct when you talk to someone?
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Do you sugarcoat things when you give feedback?
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What rituals do you practice?
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What are your favourite rituals/customs?
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What rituals do you think should be revised?
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What rituals do you think should no longer be practised?
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What rituals do you think should be imported into your culture?
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What is your favourite food and how often do you eat it?
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Which foods taste bad to you?
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Have you tried growing your own food?
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Why do you think are people in some places still hungry?
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How do you judge food? By taste, appearance, smell, or feel?
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Pick one food to represent you. Why did you choose it?
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What unhealthy food do you love?
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What country food do you like?
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What kinds of food can you cook?
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Do you enjoy trying new foods, or do you prefer to stick to familiar dishes?
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Have you tried any new foods recently?
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What role does exercise play in your daily routine?
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How do you feel after moving your body? (exercise)
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Are you a fruit or veggie person?
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What’s your favourite drink? Why?
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What’s your favourite snack? Why?
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Do you like trying new foods?
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What is your comfort food?
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What is your favourite game?
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What kind of games do you like to play?
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How do you feel about competition in games? And in real life?
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Are there any genres of games that you don’t like or don’t play often? Why not?
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What effect do you think video games have on people’s mental health?
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Do you like long games that take dozens of hours to complete or shorter games that can be completed in a few hours?
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Do you prefer competitive or cooperative games?
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What do you think makes a good game?
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What do you think is the most important aspect of a game?
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What do you think is the most underrated aspect of a game?
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What do you think is the most overrated aspect of a game?
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What are your thoughts on freedom of expression?
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What are your thoughts on voting?
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What comes to mind when you hear the word ‘freedom’?
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Do you have as much freedom as you want in your life?
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Was there a time in your life when you had a lack of freedom?
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What would it be like to live where there is little freedom of choice?
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Can freedom damage a country?
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What does freedom feel like to you?
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